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Navigating your career when you’re just starting out can make you feel like you’re at the mercy of the next roll of the dice in your favorite board game; one space forward, two spaces back. Each success seems to be countered by a failure. While you might not be able to control every failure, you can control how you react to them.

Back when I first moved to Los Angeles, over a decade ago, I learned this lesson first hand. As a budding TV producer I felt lost in the sea of uncertainty. My mom’s Midwestern advice was always ringing in my ear, “Get a good job, work hard and be loyal.” However, like most other industries these days, entertainment doesn’t always reward loyalty, is constantly evolving and is anything but stable.

One Step Forward…

After about six months of interviews and the agony of waiting by the phone to hear if I had been hired, I got a job. My first success!

So, like my mom had advised, I worked hard, moved up steadily and didn’t let go. But for six years, I watched former colleagues come and go and rise to the top in other organizations. I felt like a failure since I wasn’t moving up like they were. Eventually, I knew I would have to do the same if I really wanted to grow.

So I did it, carefully. I hunted around until I found a longer-term project— six months— and gave notice at my job. People were impressed. I was impressed—and surprised at how easy it seemed. I became a writer on a TV show that I was proud of.  Another success!

But those six months flew by fast and before I knew it, I was out there, wild, hustling for my next gig. “This should be easy,” I thought. I mean, it hadn’t been that hard to find my last job. Weeks passed and nothing. I felt like a failure again.

Two Steps Back…

Entertainment was changing. People were watching media and videos on their computers and cell phones, but no one really knew how to make money from it. The industry was divided between two camps: those who wished this ‘new media’ would go away and those who—even though they didn’t know how or what it was about —embraced it.

I joined the latter camp and at the ripe old age of 30, I decided to do something about it. I took an internship with the biggest mobile content producing company I could find. Even though it gave me something to do, I still felt like a failure.

I was college educated. I had worked as a producer, writer and director for over 5 years by this point. My name had been listed in countless credits. Yet, here I was getting people coffee alongside young twenty-somethings. I’d like to say I didn’t care, but that would be a lie. It was a brutal blow to my ego. On more than one occasion I wanted to quit. But I knew if I held out long enough— as long as my savings would let me— I would learn what I had come to learn.

…to See the Hidden Opportunity

I spent about two months as a general intern and then got pulled into creating budgets for the projects. Then I moved over to creative. I worked with large brands including Petco and Walmart and was developing a show with a company out of Italy. Towards the end of my run there, I was pitching in meetings alongside the owner of the company. Had I continued working in traditional unscripted television, there was no way I would have gained this much experience in such a short amount of time. Finally, I was feeling successful again.

When my savings ran out, I knew I had to get back to the work, but this time looking for a job was very different. I had a whole new set of skills to promote in my interviews and a much more detailed resume. Needless to say, I landed my next job pretty quickly. What had at first felt like a massive failure turned out to be a huge boost to my career. Even though I couldn’t make people hire me at the time, I took the situation I was in and created something positive out of it.

In business and life, when our paths don’t lead where we planned, or we hit a roadblock, we’re faced with an option: let it hold us back or see it as an opportunity for growth. Which will you choose?

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Dominique Anders

Dominique is an entertainment producer and certified business & lifestyle coach for creatives. She brings over a decade of experience in the industry as she helps her clients bring the passion back in their careers, bounce back from burnout and create overall balance within their lives.


  • Thank you for sharing this Dominique!!! Feeling failure only lasts as long as you let it! And if you can harness the good and pull yourself out, you’re on the way to success! You are a true example of that! 🙂 Keep grinding!

  • JWest

    Great Friday read! Its super inspirational to read success stories like these!

  • Shahna

    Thanks for the honesty and inspiration Dominique! Great article and great advice!

  • Will Martin

    Thanks for sharing your experiences and insight; very inspirational and timely for me as my life and business navigate unchartered waters. Beautifully written, I choose “Opportunity”.

  • Beverlie

    This is such a great article. So true that sometimes what seems like a failure is really a lesson to build your tool box. Thank you for sharing your story and for the reminder.

  • Love the feedback folks!
    It sounds like all of you have the insight to do exactly what I wrote about which makes me so happy! Cheers!

  • Jean

    So many different paths and ups and downs in ones life and career. This article brings a positive attitude to the downs. It’s nice to read and feel that positive vibe.

  • Awesome read! I can relate to this article on so many levels! As a fine artist, it’s difficult finding consistant work that will pay the bills and I often put my art dreams on hold while working in other fields so I could eat and pay rent. I felt like a failure as well as unfulfilled, seeing my art supplies gathering dust in the closet. Yet, the friends and connections I made at those other “jobs” became priceless…and working in those fields only confirmed the desire to pursue my career dreams even more. I left a good paying job to finish my degree in art and found an amazing job in teaching art, something I never thought about doing and where I also met my business partner. I am now in my dream job of teaching fine art in our own business, plus selling my own art on the side. So I like the perspective in your article on how career failures can actually be viewed more as stepping stones towards your true calling in life!

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